I haven't seen Inge in a long while. I understand. I know it's tough being a new mum and even tougher holding down a job at Compass Travel on top. Inge's a mum to two kids! I still can't believe this. Her new baby is called Lucy. Sweet! A sister for Marie. It's a pity Lucy's father is Deek. That makes it even harder.
In the interim of not seeing much of Inge. Cold turkey. Divorced! I have decided to use my time wisely:
1/ No partying, which means saving pennies. Pay off a little debt. Debt free. Mission accomplished. Yey!
2/ Less opportunities for making boyfriends. All for the greater good. Cold turkey. No misery. Relief! I was probably a horrible girlfriend anyway. Selfish. Want my own way all of the time. I think I may be a little bossy. However men are kids. Big kids. Conflict. Bossy 'v' Hissy Fits. Ugly. It's exhausting battling someone just like yourself. Something has to give. So I've given up. Cold turkey. I realize there is no place in a relationship for two husbands.
Inge said, in a snatched 10 minutes over the phone, that abstinence will do me good. That I should use my introspection wisely. Build a thought process of allowing a boyfriend to play King to my Queen. Be smart. Or there's no babies for you Shaz!
I don't know if I can be so so ... Machiavellian.
Have faith, says Inge. It's all different once the babies arrive. That's when you get the upper hand ... things change. Thumb and under Shaz!
Hmm. Obviously, Inge is a rough role model. I didn't tell her this, of course. Deek is married. Deek is always married! He's not leaving. Poor Inge.
A break from her will do me good. I've got to find new friends.
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